Today we are talking about sex, possibly one of the greatest gifts outside of eternal life God ever gave humankind! To help us with this conversation, Dave Willis of strongermarriages.com, is going to lend his expertise...and trust me, this guy has millions of readers, likes, and more.
Coming up next we talk about the 4 things every couple needs to know about sex.
About Dave and Ashley Willis (www.strongermarriages.com)
4 things every couple needs to know about sex
The health of your emotional relationship
If you don’t feel loved, you don’t want to show love
The specific things you are doing to kill your sexual intimacy
How you respond to your spouse matters.
Lack of affirmation
Here’s how you eliminate them
Start to validate each other
Lack of affirmation
Make a list of what you appreciate about your spouse (you can do this on our app)
Don’t wait till you feel like affirming your spouse, do it because it is the right thing to do. Your spouse isn’t pure evil!
Assume the best instead of the worst all the time
Each one of these fixes takes important choices. Stop acting like a victim and do the right thing regardless of whether your spouse deserves it.
If you want to catch up on the previous episodes of the series, Tonight, then click here: ...
Initiate don’t hesitate… “So slide over here; And give me a moment; Your moves are so raw; I've got to let you know; I've got to let you know; You're one of my kind…”
“Honestly, do you really even need a list?” so said my 20 yr old daughter!
Be open to change and creativity.
Build excitement and anticipation.
Serve up a five star meal, meat and potatoes or a fast food meal.
Enjoy sex with him, because he truly desires your pleasure too!
Stop criticizing him for being a man, sex is not just for pleasure, it is also his way to bond with you and connect emotionally.
Leave the lights on for a possible change, men tend to be visually stimulated.
Plan sex. That’s right, talk with your husband and discover how many times he’d enjoy having sex in a month and what kinds of things he enjoys.
If you have missed any of the previous episodes, just click here.
How to survive the drive!
Married sex is the best sex
Have you ever wanted to quit on your relationship, because you feel like it’s just too hard? We’ve got another episode of Your Story Matters today, meet John and Erin Kadleck.
Your story is God’s story. He gets the glory for your redemption.
They rushed to get married, because he was getting deployed to Afghanistan.
“He came back a different person.”
“He was keeping things from me to protect me.”
As he withdrew, she felt more rejected and felt like it was her fault.
John would drink himself to sleep every night.
Poor communication spiraled out-of-control.
Sometimes our hearts are in the right place, but we have poor execution.
John’s fear was that if he shared his struggles or fears, Erin would reject him.
Holding the secrets from her, was a dark cloud in their relationship.
After he shared, all Erin did was hug John.
Erin had a strong commitment, and it was her commitment to the marriage and...
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