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Your best option is to quit

You heard me! Quit already, you keep trying to eliminate divorce and you are only making it worse...

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Fast and pray for the love of life!

Want to know what happens when you ignore God before making important life decisions? You know, decisions like where to move, taking a new job, which school to attend, to marry someone, divorce someone, things of this nature. If you willingly choose honesty, I do not need to answer the question. You know what happens...

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Bewildered

You might feel bewildered about why your husband is shut down, God does not.

If an epic, in-depth online experience is something you’d be interested in covering the discussion today or access to any of the downloads mentioned, and even better, 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community of support from people who will cheer you on as you journey to the relationship you want. Join the VIP Inner Circle! Learn more.

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You are a child of the King! Now go live like one.

If you are not worthy, no one is worthy. Be an Esther and win back your husband is now about identity. When asked about my own identity, I had the right answers but my actions told a different story. "I am a child of the King!" but...my actions showed I did not believe it; drinking, avoiding pain, passive-aggressiveness, passivity, gossiping, all of it told a different story! How could someone who genuinely loves himself allow any of this?

You are more than just a wife.

If an epic, in-depth online experience is something you’d be interested in covering the discussion today or access to any of the downloads mentioned, and even better, 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community of support from people who will cheer you on as you journey to the relationship you want. Join the VIP Inner Circle! Learn more.

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The Invisible God - Be an Esther

One of the glaring omissions in the book of Esther is God. Yes, you are reading this correctly! We do not know who wrote the book of Esther. If you read it, you are not going to read about God. Fact-check me on this one. Do not be fooled, however. We might not find the word “God” anywhere in the book. But have no doubt, God’s awesome power is the main theme running through Esther’s pages. God’s fingerprints are everywhere!

An orphan girl becomes queen, a Jewish girl of all things! Impossible! If a person lacks belief in God, the word, “coincidence” is often used. If you follow him, you know God is working behind the scenes and sees the big picture. I believe by omitting God the author is intentionally highlighting God’s work behind the scenes. When a crisis hits, and the darkness settles in, God becomes less obvious to even the most staunch believer. Esther shows us, even in the darkness, God is at work and he keeps his promises.

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Be an Esther and Win Back Your Husband!

Welcome to Be an Esther and Win Back Your Husband online experience! It is an honor to be part of your journey in winning back the heart of your husband. I want to share something important straight away, which may come as a shock to you……... I am not a woman.

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Break free from generational sin

Learn three simple things to pray about in order to break free from generational sin! 

The rest of my notes are in the VIP Inner Circle membership. 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley (me), a growing library of videos, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community of support from people who will cheer you on as you journey to the relationship you want. START NOW

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Protect your family

“The Church in the West today presents too easy a target for Satan. We do not believe we are at war. We do not know where the battleground is located, and, in spite of our weapons, they are neither loaded nor aimed at the right target. We are unaware of how vulnerable we are.” Ed Silvoso

We are fighting a literal spiritual battle for the wellbeing of our family!

“There are two equal and opposite errors into which our race can fall about the devils. One is to disbelieve their existence. The other is to believe and feel an unhealthy interest in them. They themselves are equally pleased by both errors and hail a materialist or a magician with the same delight.” C.S. Lewis

From J.R.R. Tolkien's Lord of the Rings:

Theoden: I will not risk open war! 
Aragorn: Open war is upon you whether you risk it or not.

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Is it a curse or a consequence?

Thirteen people dead. A massacre by any standard. More would die over the following decades. Hate, violence, bitterness, death passed on to generation after generation—the family line devastated by a rare disease, Von Hippel-Lindau. The family tree’s consequences were tumors of the eyes, ears, pancreas, and adrenal glands leading to death and brokenness between lovers, friends, and family. The plague haunting this family came known as ‘Madness Disease.’

What could cause generations of suffering? What hideous act leads to generations of early death and madness? What kind of sinister action could define a family line and produce books, movies, and television series watched worldwide? Hate? Violence? Suffering?

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Make disciples of all nations

The view was astounding! Blackcomb Peak (in British Columbia, Canada), and extreme skiers dream. I stood at the precipice of four vertical shutes. I'd never seen anything like it.  All I had to do was stand in place and circle around to take one of the shutes. Spending the better part of a day hiking to the top, turning back was not an option. Fear swept through my body.  My heartbeat increased speed and pounded in my chest. Altitude was not the cause of my shortened breaths, it was knowing if I fell at any point careening down the mountain, I was dead. But fear had never stopped me before, I lifted my skis and plummeted down, not touching the ground for nearly 15 feet. And yet, many of you listening right now feel more scared of mentoring other couples than I did on Blackcomb Peak. And that's a problem.

As a Marriage Mentor, you want your relationship healthy.  Finishing this course and applying the knowledge and skills...

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