“In a world where great risks can bring extraordinary rewards, Tom Mullen has succeeded beyond his wildest dreams...” Now I hear it, I’ll never make it as a movie trailer voiceover guy, like that one guy, who’s done every movie trailer ever produced. Do you know his name? I looked it up and will tell you at the end of this intro. “But first, in a world where husbands and wives fight for control of the other, one couple takes a risk. They boldly enter into a difficult conversation.”
You’ll love this movie! Drama, comedy, suspense, and a happy ending...no, not that kind of happy ending! Pain is part of an intimate relationship but most of us can’t ever go there because we either avoid pain, or we turn pain into an unproductive hurt locker.
Today we learn how to have a difficult conversation. You’re going to learn about, wait for it, cue the dramatic music...the the soft start-up.
Welcome to the show, I’m your host, Michael...
Feeling flooded in tough conversations is miserable! Don't miss out on August 7th from 7pm to 9pm when I share the best thing I've ever learned to do when my heart rate gets too high in an argument.
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Your marriage is hard, now get over it
I’m continuing in the series, The Warriors Marriage, today is perhaps the simplest concept and the hardest way to be a warrior in your marriage. Your marriage is hard, circumstances seem impossible, now get over it.
Welcome to the podcast, I’m your host Michael Smalley and next, don't ignore this podcast. Keep listening. Keep trusting. Never quit, never surrender.
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Attend the free webinar on August 7th, Friday night from 7pm to 9pm CST. I’m going to spend two-hours unpacking today’s strategies. Plus plenty of time for Q&A and very cool downloadable couple's exercise you can print out and use right away.
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“No matter how bad things are, you can always make things worse.” ― Randy Pausch, The Last Lecture
Randolph Frederick Pausch (October...
Welcome, “Today is the 2nd part of my series on the warrior’s marriage, and you’re not going to like it...well...you’ll eventually like it but first I have to shove a few things down your throat for a second, maybe a minute. “Welcome to the Inspiritaitonal Comedy podcast with Michael Smalley, learning doesn’t have to be boring!”
The pain is a good thang!
“There's a reason a cold beer tastes better after you've mowed the lawn or a hot chocolate tastes better after you shovel the...
Dr. John Gottman writes:
We all know what it’s like to get carried off by some rough emotional currents when we are dealing with our mate. These aren’t the day-to-day flashes of anger or hurt. I am talking about the giant waves of bad feelings that completely knock you down and take any rational thought with them. This is how it usually goes. You are in the middle of a conflict or disagreement, your partner says or does something, and suddenly you fall down a deep dark rabbit hole. The only notes you register are rage, hurt, panic, and fear.
Ever think, "Why do our arguments feel insane? I end up overwhelmed and totally discouraged"? On August 7th learn why "Flooding" derails your relationship. More importantly, learn how to eliminate "Flooding" from your arguments!
If you want to turn arguments from miserable moments to opportunities for deeper intimacy, educate don't degenerate by:
Who are you?
These choices reflect who we are and what we value.
To be more satisfied in your relationship means living in harmony with who you really are.
28 Statements from Jesus that will Transform Your Marriage
Part 1 - The critical importance of intimacy with Jesus
Repent Matthew 4:17
Day 6 - The time I kissed a girl and then…
Yesterday I shared the time I was patient zero in a meningitis outbreak in Conroe Texas. Today you get to hear when I was patient zero at Kanakuk Kamp in Branson Missouri! It involves my first ever kiss with a girl I wasn’t dating and more!
BUILD A BETTER LIFE WITH…
Real or Messed up Quarantine Family Fun Tips
Exploding Kittens
YOU PUT THE CARDS ON THE TABLE AND TAKE TURNS DRAWING FROM THEM.
Playing Exploding Kittens
IF YOU DRAW AN EXPLODING KITTEN CARD, YOU EXPLODE. WHEN YOU...
Day 5 - Abducted in India
Today’s show features a game you can play as a family, it’s my own family’s favorite game! I’ll just give you the subtitle which says it all…”Build a Unicorn Army. Betray your friends. Unicorns are your friends now.” And then, you’ll get the story of when I was abducted in India. Yes, I’ve been abducted before and you won’t believe what it lead to!
BUILD A BETTER LIFE WITH…
Unstable Unicorns is a strategic card game about everyone’s two favorite...
Day 4 - Surprise colon exams
On today’s Comedy Hour (not quite an hour) America is great again, Real or Messed up Quarantine Family Fun Tips and a man’s worst fear…surprise colon checks!
New York retired doctors and nurses!
BUILD A BETTER LIFE!
Real or Messed up Quarantine Family Fun Tips
Learn how to rebuild trust and truly connect on a deeper level than ever before.
There is HOPE!
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