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A new online experience for couples who want the kind of relationship they always dreamed of having!

Pursue Oneness takes the guesswork out of "what can help" by providing an easy way to discover the most important knowledge and skills you need to succeed in your relationship.

* Life-changing video

* Practical communication skills

* Online assessments 

* Find new ways to love each other that encourages positive change

By the end of Pursue Oneness you will have the most critical marriage enrichment a couple needs for a dynamic marriage. Your spiritual lives will be in sync and you'll have had incredible fun together!


Private Marriage Coaching

For a custom, personalized experience  call us to learn how a Smalley Marriage Intensive can help you turn your relationship around.  We work with your schedule and have eight locations across the United States where you can meet for two or three days privately with one of our highly trained intensive coaches. 
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"I personally had about given up on our marriage. After years, even decades of different counselors, we were still stuck in unhealthy and destructive cycles. Our coach had the knowledge, style, tools, and care to hear our pain, validate us, and teach us to do that for each other. It was the key for our hearts to soften and opened the door to a healthier and happier future together." - Intensive Testimony


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The latest advice and inspiration from our show


Inspire your community, church or organization with our live weekend or date night event. This isn't a conference but a comedic learning experience!

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Check out these practical courses designed to help transform your relationship today




  • Discover why you argue
  • The four reactions you have to stop immediately
  • It's the most important relationship principle you'll ever learn
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  • Free online assessment of the Smalley Animal Personality Test
  • Classic videos from Dr. Gary Smalley on personality
  • In-depth lesson content to help you better understand each other
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  • Finally find win/win solutions to your conflict
  • Our most powerful and practical communication system
  • Taught in every Smalley Marriage Intensive because it works
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Everything You Need to Succeed

You want a better relationship, but sometimes you can’t seem to figure out how to do it. Smalley Institute Online is the result of Gary Smalley’s legacy in inspiring better relationships for over 50 years. You can build the relationship of your dreams when you learn our proven, practical skills on exactly what it takes to love well. “Knowledge and skills is what it takes for couples to thrive!” - Gary Smalley. We've got the courses online for you to succeed. The Smalley Intensive program, and small group resources. The question is, are you ready to make a change?

What Do Experts Think?

“Having a healthy marriage may not be as difficult as you think. Michael and Amy give practical and realistic ideas on how to have a better marriage.”
Dr. Gary Chapman, author of The 5 Love Languages

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If you just want to get all our free courses to help you build a better relationship then click below. You can transform your relationship if you are willing to discover what it takes to love each other well.


These video studies and books can make a huge impact on your most important relationships.

Tested and proven advice

Pursue Oneness is a ground-breaking book with seven key strategies proven to unlock the passion in your relationship.

"For the couple who can't attend the Smalleys' marriage conference but want or need their wisdom: this is your answer! Michael and Amy have done an amazing job boiling down their two-day intensive into the most essential concepts that strengthen marriages and that everyone should know. Whether your marriage is in distress or delightful, you will love this excellent road map for marriage." — Shaunti Feldhahn

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Best-selling relationship series of all time

Dr. Gary Smalley presents his 19 Keys to Loving Relationships on six DVD’s. Each session gives practical insights and a greater understanding about the need for close, intimate relationships.This is a great resource for your church as an outreach ministry! We recommend ordering one study guide per person attending the group discussion.

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Digital Download

It's like Jim Gaffigan meets Bob Newhart! You'll want to hear what Michael had to do to get Amy to fall in love with him...and you won't want to believe him, but it is all true! Be inspired as you laugh hysterically and realize your relationship isn't as bad as you thought!

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12 Week DVD Study

How can you turn your relationship around by following Jesus Christ? This special DVD study from NY Times best-selling author Steve Scott can show you how.  When you truly follow Jesus, you can't help but change.

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Great for Churches

Get instant access for life to 15 of our greatest small group studies beautifully converted to an online platform! Perfect for churches, small groups, and Sunday school!  Includes studies like: Keys to Loving Relationships, Homes of Honor Parenting, Engaged, and so many more.  You can use this for marriage enrichment, premarital education, and marriage mentoring.

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