The Reluctant Missionary
Authentic stories from the travels of Michael Smalley.
It’s the ninth show in our series called, The Hero’s Guide to Winning Back Your Wife! It is the final show (until Seth reminds me that we need to do a wrap-up show) of the series. Last...
It’s the eighth show of our series, The Hero’s Guide to Winning Back Your Wife. Sometimes, the hero’s journey doesn’t have a hollywood ending. It can be more like the...
We’ve landed on the seventh week in our series, The Hero’s Guide to Winning Back Your Wife. Today’s show could possibly be the most important of the entire series because you are...
- The key strategies to seeking forgiveness are
- Adjust your expectations of her response
- Own the damage (which you’ve already learned about in the show “It starts with you”)
- Be...
- What your wife wants most is to be validated
- “You’re right…”
- Validating someone’s feelings is first accepting someone’s feelings and then acknowledging and...
- It starts with you
- Personal responsibility is at the heart of every healthy relationship
- It’s the fuel that drives the engine
- Stop focusing on everything else
- Look in the mirror, the only...
- Personal responsibility is at the heart of every healthy relationship
- If you’re listening to this show, you might know of what we speak. “That’ll do Donkey...that’ll do.” Shrek
- You’ve blown it, now what?
- Accept the consequences...
- How you lost her in the first place
- Unresolved anger and conflict
- You were pushing her buttons AND reacting poorly to your buttons being pushed
- The Conflict Dance
- How you break the dance
- Take...
- How you break the dance
Today we start a special series on The Hero’s Guide To Winning Back Your Wife. It’s based on a new book I’m writing with my brother-in-law Roger Gibson for men who want to build...
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