What is one word that will change my marriage?

* assist
* help
* benefit
* do a kindness
* go fifty-fifty
* gratify the wishes of
* make room
* meet halfway
* meet the wants
* take it
* be kind enough to bend over backward
* don't make waves
* meet the needs of
* meet the wants of
* put oneself out for
* grin and bear it
* do a kindness to
* treat well
* dote on
* take care of

The one word is SERVE.

1. It puts everything in perspective
2. It creates an environment for change
3. It matures you

How do I stay with someone when they:

• Consistently shift blame
• Take no personal responsibility
• Blame their behaviors on their childhood
• Gaslight most conversations that are emotional
• Can’t validate my feelings
• Makes mountains out of molehills and molehills out of mountains.
• Doesn’t follow through

Here's what you do:

1. Catch and release
2. Stop focusing on what’s broken
3. The real issue is your dependence on him to make you happy

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