The Reluctant Missionary

Authentic stories from the travels of Michael Smalley.

The biggest killers to sexual intimacy and how to eliminate them sexual intimacy tonight Jul 10, 2018

  1. The health of your emotional relationship

    1. If you don’t feel loved, you don’t want to show love

  2. The specific things you are doing to kill your sexual intimacy

    1. Invalidation

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Tonight: Top 10 ways to hack your husband's sex drive marriage sexual intimacy tonight Jul 02, 2018

  1. Initiate don’t hesitate… “So slide over here; And give me a moment; Your moves are so raw; I've got to let you know; I've got to let you know; You're one of my...

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How to survive the drive conflict resolution marriage Jun 25, 2018

How to survive the drive!

  1. Keep it positive
    1. Give each other the benefit of the doubt
    2. Are you really supposed to blow everything off?
      1. No, you can’t really, but before you say anything
        1. Ask...
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Tonight - Top 10 ways guaranteed to turn your wife on marriage sexual intimacy tonight May 29, 2018

  • This is actually not that difficult! It begins and ends with placing high value and honoring your wife.  Make her #1 and sex is an outpouring of how much she feels loved!
  • Be a great dad!...
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Tonight: oral sex, toys and so much more marriage sexual intimacy tonight May 21, 2018

  1. What kind of boundaries does the bible give around sex and marriage?
    1. Be honoring, kind, serving, patient….loving!
    2. That’s it!
    3. Leviticus 18:6-23
      1. 6 “‘No one is to...
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New series Tonight: Why married sex is the best sex marriage sexual intimacy tonight May 08, 2018

Married sex is the best sex

  1. Why do a series of shows on sex? Married sex is the best sex!
    1. Because it seems as though this is the topic of conversation you, the listener is most interested in.
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Your Story Matters John and Erin Kadleck addiction infidelity smalley marriage radio your story matters May 01, 2018

Have you ever wanted to quit on your relationship, because you feel like it’s just too hard?  We’ve got another episode of Your Story Matters today, meet John and Erin Kadleck.

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Amy Smalley on Negative Beliefs for LifeTODAY marriage Apr 27, 2018

Amy identifies a common problem in relationships and provides a practical way to solve it with James and Betty Robison.

Watch the full episode on May 8, 2018. To watch the entire program,...

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Relationship advice from Smeagol, Chewbacca, and more (and I guess Jonathan Decker too) marriage Apr 24, 2018

Jonathan Decker is the clinical director of Your Family Expert. He is a licensed marriage and family therapist, husband, and father of five. Jonathan earned a masters degree in family therapy from...

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Your Story Matters Amanda Voigt - Infertility marriage parenting your story matters Apr 17, 2018

"Though paved with pain and heartache, the seasons I struggled the most have also become the seasons I cherish the most. For in those seasons, I found myself at the feet of a good, good Father,...

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Your Story Matters Lauren Zachry - Addiction addiction your story matters Apr 10, 2018

An inspiring interview with a woman who overcame drugs and thoughts of suicide - only to find the two greatest loves of her life!

Your Story Matters is a series of shows focused on you, the...

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Four things every couple needs to know about sex marriage sexual intimacy Apr 03, 2018

Today we are talking about sex, possibly one of the greatest gifts outside of eternal life God ever gave humankind! To help us with this conversation, Dave Willis of strongermarriages.com, is...

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