The Reluctant Missionary

Authentic stories from the travels of Michael Smalley.

Get to know your mate's inner child conversation starters marriage Jan 04, 2018

Intimacy is more than just hanging out with each other or sharing your deepest emotions.  It is also important to get to know each other.  These questions can help you learn a little...

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The sexy edition of date night conversation starters conversation starters marriage Oct 05, 2017

These questions should really help you heat things up during your date night!

  1. What would be the most fun way to get you excited about being intimate with me?
  2. Fill in the blank...when I _______ you...
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What superhero would you want to be conversation starters marriage Sep 28, 2017

This is a special edition of conversation starters that I'm calling...the Superhero Edition!  If you can't laugh at some of these, then I just don't know how to help. =]

  1. What superhero would...
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What do you want to do when you retire? conversation starters marriage Sep 21, 2017

Sometimes it is the simple questions that help you learn the most about each other.  When you begin discovering what makes each other tick...things heat up!

  1. What do you want to do when you...
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What was the very first thing you thought about me conversation starters marriage Sep 14, 2017

Get that spark back with these questions for your next date night!

  1. What was the very first thing you thought about me?
  2. What is your favorite thing I ever did for a special occasion for you?
  3. What...
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What food reminds you of me conversation starters marriage Sep 07, 2017

You really can have a fun date night when you have creative questions to ask each other!  Whether you're going out to dinner or simply stealing a moment for yourselves after getting the kids...

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