The Reluctant Missionary
Authentic stories from the travels of Michael Smalley.
What is one word that will change my marriage?
* assist
* help
* benefit
* do a kindness
* go fifty-fifty
* gratify the wishes of
* make room
* meet halfway
* meet the wants
* take it
* be kind eno...
How do I stay with someone when they:
- Consistently shift blame
- Take no personal responsibility
- Blame their behaviors on their childhood
- Gaslight most conversations that are emotional
- Canā€™t va ...
An answer to the question, "Where do you get help when the only reason you are still married is that 1) divorce is too expensive, and 2) homicide is illegal. (No, this is not a prank question. The o...
A fellow learner wants to know, "What is the single best predictor of whether a couple who goes through your program will make it."
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The problem may be with you trying to get her to love you again.
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Is it always up to one spouse to instigate sex? Wouldn't it leave the instigator feeling under wanted if they are always having to start the festivities?
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