The Reluctant Missionary

Authentic stories from the travels of Michael Smalley.

It starts with you

hero's guide to winning back your wife marriage Oct 10, 2017

  • It starts with you
    • Personal responsibility is at the heart of every healthy relationship
      • It’s the fuel that drives the engine
      • Stop focusing on everything else
      • Look in the mirror, the only thing you can control is your own thoughts, emotions, and actions
    • When we blame
      • We become the victim, and victims simply don’t win relationally
      • It causes defensiveness
      • Stops the change process
      • Builds animosity
  • A hero’s actions
    • Don’t apologize, but take responsibility
    • “What I’ve realized is how I hurt you by…”
    • Do for her what you wish she was doing for you
    • Never quit
IT WORKS IF YOU WORK IT

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