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How a real man seeks forgiveness

  • The key strategies to seeking forgiveness are
    • Adjust your expectations of her response
    • Own the damage (which you’ve already learned about in the show “It starts with you”)
    • Be soft in both words and actions
    • Whatever you do, don’t say “I’m sorry”
    • Don’t shy away from the really hard stuff
    • Take it on the chin if need be
  • What if your wife reacts poorly?
    • Just exactly what were you expecting?
    • Allow her the right to be upset and reject your seeking of forgiveness
    • Make sure she knows your “door” is always open if she changes her mind
    • Pray and fast on when you should approach her again, but don’t harass her...no matter what
    • Give God the chance to work on her heart, that is not your job
  • A hero’s actions
    • Put some time and prayer in before your initial attempt to seek forgiveness
    • Say something like, “I know that I hurt you deeply when I (insert your ownership here).  It was wrong and I’d like to ask your forgiveness if you are open to it.”

Proven Strategies To The Marriage You Really Want!

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Are you struggling in your marriage with:

  • Difficulty communicating and asserting your needs?
  • Lack of intimacy and feeling disconnected?
  • Feeling stuck because you keep having the same fights over and over again?
  • Feeling easily triggered by built-up resentment?

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