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• This is actually not that difficult! It begins and ends with placing high value and honoring your wife.  Make her #1 and sex is an outpouring of how much she feels loved!
• Be a great dad! Sounds sick, but trust us, it does the trick!
• Overwhelm her with affirmation about her life, her looks, and her future.
• It’s old advice, but it is still true today.  Be a listener.  If you are a typical man who loves to solve problems, it doesn’t necessarily work with your wife.  Most times she just wants to be heard and validated.
• Ask her the trillion dollar question…”What are things I could do for you that really help you get in the mood?”  Then do those things out of a desire to server her, not get sex!
• Clean, the Mr. Clean commercial couldn’t be more real (at least for most women). https://youtu.be/GDzMxlw2Fgo
• Be thoughtful. Look for opportunities to do loving things for your wife on a weekly basis (daily ultimately)....

1. What kind of boundaries does the bible give around sex and marriage?
1. Be honoring, kind, serving, patient….loving!
2. That’s it!
3. Leviticus 18:6-23
1. 6 “‘No one is to approach any close relative to have sexual relations. I am the Lord.
2. “‘Do not dishonor your father by having sexual relations with your mother. She is your mother; do not have relations with her. “‘Do not have sexual relations with your father’s wife; that would dishonor your father. 9 “‘Do not have sexual relations with your sister, either your father’s daughter or your mother’s daughter, whether she was born in the same home or elsewhere. 10 “‘Do not have sexual relations with your son’s daughter or your daughter’s daughter; that would dishonor you. 11 “‘Do not have sexual relations with the daughter of your father’s wife, born to your father; she is your sister. 12 “‘Do not have sexual...

Married sex is the best sex

1. Why do a series of shows on sex? Married sex is the best sex!
1. Because it seems as though this is the topic of conversation you, the listener is most interested in.
2. Our number one show is titled “Is Oral sex allowed for a Christian couple”.
3. Oddly enough most couples don’t ever truly learn about the needs and desires of their spouse...so we are going to help facilitate a conversation about them.
4. There is still a lot of misinformation out there for couples, we want to clear the air and get you on the right path for a healthy sex life.
2. Let’s start off this series with some good ole healthy facts and figures about sex and the married couple
1. Married people have the best sex
1. Sex isn’t only about personal pleasure, it’s about loving someone unconditionally and meeting their needs intimacy wise.
2. PsychologyToday.com “For example, if you have sex twice a week you may experience the equivalent of being two years younger...

Today we are talking about sex, possibly one of the greatest gifts outside of eternal life God ever gave humankind! To help us with this conversation, Dave Willis of strongermarriages.com, is going to lend his expertise...and trust me, this guy has millions of readers, likes, and more.

Coming up next we talk about the 4 things every couple needs to know about sex.

About Dave and Ashley Willis (www.strongermarriages.com)

• Almost 1 million likes on their Facebook page! https://www.facebook.com/strongermarriages/
• Millions of readers on their blog
• Pastor at Stevens Creek Church near Augusta, Georgia
• Authors of The 7 Day Marriage Challenge (Husband edition and Wife edition)

4 things every couple needs to know about sex

Where do you come up with all this great content?
Who was your inspiration to get into marriage ministry?
What’s the worst fight you and Ashley have had?

1. Most MEN see sex as a form of stress relief while most WOMEN need stress relief BEFORE they can be in mindset to...

I just received this question and it jumped right off the page at me!

We have just ordered over $400 worth of books, workbooks, cd’s and dvd’s from you and your family……..we are desperate……I just have to ask one question………I have to have an answer to this question before I can get past some issues……….it is this………..

“Is oral sex something that is OK with the Lord, and, is it ok to dress up in a little nurse costume, or such.

I know this sounds so crazy, but I am about to go out of my mind needing to know the answers to this question! We have two boys coming up and I want them to have the best life possible in the Lord………these questions are just not talked about enough!

Thank you for your time and answer. May God richly bless you and all of your family!

MICHAEL: I hate couples who miss out on the joy of sex with each other because they think there are...

What's healthy when it comes to sexual intimacy in marriage? This episode is definitely not for little ears, a warning to those parents who might not want their kids to hear an honest and frank discussion about sex. I've got Dave Willis on the show and we don't shy away from anything when discussing sexual intimacy.

And it all started because of a bizarre new trend in wedding photography!