How to Know If Your Marriage Can Still Be Saved

"Is it too late?"

That's the question I hear most often from couples in crisis.

The marriage has been struggling for years. Maybe decades. The distan...

The Last-Ditch Effort That Actually Works (When Your Marriage Is on Life Support)

"I've tried everything. Nothing is working."

James sat across from me, defeated. His wife had moved into the guest r...

"How long do I have to wait for him to change?"

Sarah had been married for 23 years. Twenty-three years of hoping her husband would become more emotionally expressive. More romantic. More engaged ...

It was a perfect Sunday afternoon. NFL Redzone was on. I was relaxed. Life was good.

My son David, his wife K'leigh, and my grandson Remington had been visiting The Woodlands, TX and were supposed...

"I set a boundary with my husband, but he's not respecting it!"

Maria was frustrated. She had been reading books on boundaries, attending workshops, working with a therapist. She was doing everyth...

"I don't know who I am if I'm not helping him."

Jennifer sat in my office, fidgeting with her wedding ring. Her husband had finally gotten into recovery after years of her interventions, ultimatum...

When Helping Becomes Playing God: The Spiritual Truth About Letting Go

"But I'm supposed to help! Isn't that what Christians do?"

Lisa had been praying for her husband's transformation for fifteen y...

The exhausting truth about control, and why letting go is the most powerful thing you can do

Rachel came to see me after 15 years of marriage, completely exhausted.

"I've tried everything," she...

The hidden reason you can't think your way to freedom—and why surrender is more powerful than self-effort

"I just need to try harder."

That's what Jennifer told me during our first session. She...

The 90-in-90 That Saved My Life (And Why Consistency Beats Perfection)

How admitting I'd never done anything for 90 straight days became the foundation for finding freedom through Christ

"Are you ...

Why being the "helper" and "expert" might be masking deeper wounds—and what to do when your success feels hollow

From the outside, Marcus had it all figured out.

Successful business owner. Beau...

The hidden reason talk therapy isn't enough—and why healing trauma requires more than just changing your thoughts

"I've done years of therapy," Lisa told me during our first session. "I've proce...