The Reluctant Missionary

Authentic stories from the travels of Michael Smalley.

Why you need a Christian sexual ethic - with theology guru Preston Sprinkle interview marriage sexual intimacy Nov 05, 2018

"It's the sin we don't struggle with that we tend to vilify most." That's just one of the great lines from Preston Sprinkle and my latest interview. Preston and I get into the topic of how to love...

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Did I do something wrong? conflict management marriage Nov 02, 2018

Today we are taking a question that was asked of me by one of you: the question is “What if your spouse doesn’t respond when you ask what is wrong?” Well, to get the answer to...

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Why women struggle with sex Nov 01, 2018

Well, *cough* today uh, hello podcast listeners. Today we’re gonna talk about something, you know, we’re gonna talk about uhhhhhhh.... Amy finally interrupts, "We’re gonna talk...

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Authentic love marriage Oct 31, 2018

In 1994, the year we got married, two Americans were invited by the Russian Department of Education to come and teach morals and ethics in the public schools. They were even allowed to teach...

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Top 5 Fantasies marriage sexual intimacy Oct 30, 2018

Are you the kind of person who likes to let their imagination run a little wild? Are you afraid that maybe your imagination has a tendency to run a little too wild? Kids, if you’re listening...

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3 Tips to build a better relationship this month marriage Oct 29, 2018

We have now reached the last week of October and maybe you're already feeling stressed about the upcoming holiday season. Well, to help you prepare I’ve got a few tips on how you can take...

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Do you ever feel controlled? marriage Oct 27, 2018

“You just don’t understand why I’m right.” “I wish you would try to see this from my perspective.” “Why cant you let me have this one?” If you have...

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Be irresistible marriage parenting singles Oct 25, 2018

A recent study has revealed that people who are more socially connected generally lead healthier lives than those who are more isolated. This is all well and good, but the question we are going to...

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The ultimate flu vaccine marriage Oct 24, 2018

It’s that time of the year pod cast listeners; cold and flue season is back with a vengeance and many are trying anything and everything to ease their aches and pains. From essential oils to...

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The Anatomy of Marriage Podcast Interview interview marriage Oct 23, 2018

Today is a special day because I got to interview Seth and Melanie Studley! They have the Anatomy of Marriage Podcast that is a huge success!  Here's a little bit of information about them:

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The dark secret of social media marriage parenting Oct 22, 2018

Let’s talk about the social behind social media, what you think you know may surprise you, and what you don’t...well that’s what we’re gonna talk about today. Along with a...

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To be or not to be - statement #28 from Jesus 28 statements from jesus marriage Oct 15, 2018

This is the final episode of our 28 day journey of daily podcasts on the statements from Jesus that will transform your relationship!  It's a special one too, because I have two surprise...

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