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Discover What Your Relationship Patterns Reveal About Your Future Together

Take this research-backed assessment in just 3 minutes to uncover the hidden communication and conflict patterns that predict relationship success or struggle. Based on 15 years of groundbreaking research by Drs. Markman and Stanley, this simple 8-question evaluation reveals whether your relationship is on track for deeper connection or heading toward potential trouble.

Eight-Question Relationship Assessment

The Eight-Question Relationship Assessment

Discover the health of your relationship patterns

Instructions: Read each statement below and select the number that best describes how often you and your partner experience what the statement describes. Be honest with yourself for the most accurate results.

Rating Scale: 1 = Almost Never | 2 = Once in a While | 3 = Frequently
1. When we argue, one of us withdraws, not wanting to talk about it anymore, or leaves the scene.
2. Little arguments escalate into ugly fights, with accusations, criticisms, name calling, or bringing up past hurts.
3. My partner criticizes or belittles my opinions, feelings, or desires.
4. My partner seems to view my words or actions more negatively than I mean them to be.
5. When we have a problem to solve, it is as if we are on opposite teams.
6. I hold back from telling my partner what I really think and feel.
7. I think seriously about what it would be like to date or marry someone else.
8. I feel lonely in this relationship.

Assessment based on 15 years of research by Drs. Markman and Stanley
Provided by Smalley Institute | www.smalleyinstitute.com

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