Everybody Knows What to Do

I have not recorded a podcast in over a month. I am struggling with my eating again, and the Diet Coke thing is back. I moved to a new city seven months ago and I still have not found a group or a coach of my own, mostly because I have not really tried. And almost four years after my divorce, I still walk into church some Sundays not knowing how to be a single man in a room full of couples.

That is where I am starting this new series. Not because I want sympathy. Because I did not come back from the grave to pretend ever again.

Here is what I have learned in thirty years of doing this work: everybody knows what to do. Almost nobody is willing to do it when it costs something. The information was never the problem. You already know the next right thing. You have known it for weeks.

So this series asks one question, and it is the same question I ask every client I sit down with for the first time. If you say you want to change, are you willing to do whatever it takes?

Freedom is on the other side of willing. Let's go find out what that costs.

Text me at (303) 435-2630 or visit https://www.smalleyinstitute.com 

If you are listening to this and thinking about your marriage, here is what willing looks like. Two days. Just the two of you and me. We find the pattern underneath every fight you keep having, and you leave with tools that work the moment you walk back in your own front door. Most couples get in within two or three weeks, and the first conversation is free.

Learn more or reach out here: https://www.smalleyinstitute.com/intensive