The Two Words That Will Transform Every Relationship You Have

An 8-Week Online Course by Dr. Michael Smalley

Are You Exhausted from Fighting the Same Battles Over and Over?

If you're reading this, chances are you're tired. Tired of the same arguments. Tired of waiting for people to change. Tired of carrying the emotional weight of everyone else's choices.

You've tried communicating better. You've set boundaries. You've read the books and maybe even gone to counseling. But you're still stuck in the same painful patterns with the people you love most.

What if I told you there are really only TWO healthy responses when someone pushes your buttons?

1. Take a timeout
2. Drop it

That's it. Everything else just makes things worse.

Here's What 30 Years of Marriage Intensives Has Taught Me

I'm Dr. Michael Smalley, and I've spent three decades helping couples save their marriages. Our intensive program has an 87% success rate over 8 years. But if I had to distill everything I've learned into the most essential skill for relationship health, it would be this:

The ability to let go in love.

Not communication techniques. Not personality assessments. Not conflict resolution strategies. While those have their place, none of them work if you can't first learn to drop what needs to be dropped.

This Course Is For You If:

• You keep having the same arguments with your spouse, kids, or family members
• You find yourself mentally rehearsing conversations from days, weeks, or years ago
• You feel like you're walking on eggshells, trying to manage everyone's emotions
• You're exhausted from waiting for people to acknowledge they were wrong
• You love someone whose personality quirks drive you absolutely crazy
• You feel stuck between being a doormat and being controlling
• You want to love people well without losing yourself in the process

What You'll Discover in "Letting Go In Love"

Week 1-2: The Foundation

• Why your brain gets stuck in resentment loops (and how to break free)
• The crucial difference between accepting reality and approving of it
• My personal journey from toxic passivity to healthy letting go

Week 3-4: The Enemies of Release

• The three biggest killers of letting go (blame, future thinking, past thinking)
• Why refusing to let go actually shows a lack of faith in God
• How to recognize when you're trying to be someone else's Holy Spirit

Week 5-6: Practical Tools

• The "line in the sand" principle: what you MUST address vs. what you can drop
• Step-by-step process for dropping it in the moment when triggered
• The difference between influence and control (and why love actually works)

Week 7-8: Living in Freedom

• How to let go without becoming a doormat
• Creating relationships based on freedom, not fear
• Maintaining your newfound peace in difficult relationships

This Isn't Just Theory - It's Personal

I learned these principles the hard way. Through confrontations with mentors who called out my toxic patterns. Through discovering that my "peacekeeping" was actually emotional manipulation.

Every lesson includes my real stories of failure and breakthrough, because transformation happens when you see that someone else has walked the path you're on.

What's Included:

8 Weekly Lessons - Written content plus full audio readings by Dr. Smalley
Practical Exercises - Tools you can use immediately in your relationships
Reflection Questions - For journaling and deeper processing
Scripture Integration - Jesus's model for loving without controlling
Bonus Materials - Quick reference guides for crisis moments

The Promise

By the end of this course, you'll know how to:

• Stop carrying the emotional weight of other people's choices
• Influence through love instead of control through demands
• Take timeouts and drop things without feeling like you're giving up
• Create safety for others to change by changing yourself first
• Find peace regardless of whether others ever acknowledge their wrongs

Two Questions to Ask Yourself:

1. How have all your efforts to change, fix, or control others worked out so far? (Be honest.)

2. What would your relationships look like if you could truly let go of what you can't control and focus on loving well?

If your answer to #1 is "not well" and #2 excites you, this course is exactly what you need.

A Personal Guarantee

I've seen this approach work in thousands of marriages and relationships. When you stop trying to control people and start influencing through secure love, you often become more influential than you ever imagined.

But more importantly, you'll experience a peace that you've been searching for your entire life.

Start Your Journey to Freedom Today - Just $17

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This course has helped hundreds of people transform their most difficult relationships. Your peace of mind is worth far more than the cost of a dinner out.

From Dr. Michael Smalley:

"After 30 years of relationship work, I can tell you this: most people are carrying burdens they were never meant to carry. If you're ready to learn the two most important words in relationship health - 'drop it' - this course will change everything. Not just your relationships, but your entire quality of life."

Dr. Michael Smalley holds a Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology and is the founder of the Smalley Institute. He has helped thousands of couples through marriage intensives and continues the legacy of relationship expertise established by his father, Dr. Gary Smalley.