Transform Every Relationship in Your Life by Learning to Let Go in Love

Are you exhausted from trying to change people who won't change?

You've tried everything. You've argued, explained, pleaded, and prayed. You've set boundaries that you don't enforce. You've threatened consequences you don't follow through on. You've stayed up late rehearsing conversations in your head, trying to figure out how to finally get through to them.

And nothing changes.

Meanwhile, you're the one suffering. Your stress levels are through the roof. Your marriage is strained. Your relationships feel like constant battles. You lie awake at night replaying the same conflicts over and over.

What if the problem isn't that you haven't tried hard enough to change them?

What if the problem is that you're trying to change them at all?

Introducing: Letting Go In Love

The complete course that's helped thousands discover freedom from control, resentment, and the exhausting burden of trying to fix everyone.

After 30 years of counseling couples and conducting marriage intensives with an 87% success rate, Dr. Michael Smalley has distilled the most powerful relationship principle into this comprehensive guide:

The two words that will transform your relationships: "Drop it."

This isn't about becoming a doormat. This isn't about giving up on people you love. This is about learning what Jesus modeled—how to influence through love instead of control, how to set boundaries without guilt, and how to find peace regardless of others' choices.

What You'll Discover Inside This 179-Page eBook:

✅ Module 1: Understanding Letting Go

Why your brain gets stuck in resentment loops (and how to break free)
The "line in the sand" principle: What you must address vs. what you can drop
The crucial difference between healthy letting go and toxic passivity

✅ Module 2: The Enemies of Letting Go

How blame keeps you trapped as a victim
Breaking free from the "when/then" trap that makes circumstances your god
Escaping the "should have" prison and the "never" narrative

✅ Module 3: The Jesus Model

From needing to wanting: Why desperate neediness repels people
How Jesus influenced without controlling (and how you can too)
The art of healthy detachment: Caring without carrying

✅ Module 4: Practical Tools You Can Use Today

The Timeout Technique for heated moments
The Drop It Process (6 steps to releasing in real time)
The Forgiveness Framework: How to "flush" resentment for good

✅ Module 5: Application in Real Life

Letting go in marriage (without becoming roommates)
Letting go with family (loving without being controlled by guilt)
Letting go at work (maintaining boundaries in professional relationships)

✅ Module 6: Spiritual Dimensions

Surrendering to God's timeline when change feels unbearably slow
Finding peace in mystery when you don't understand God's ways

✅ Module 7: Special Challenges

When trauma makes letting go more complex
What to do when they refuse to change

✅ Module 8: Your New Identity

Who you become when you're no longer defined by control
Creating a culture of release in your family

This Isn't Theory—It's Battle-Tested Truth

Every principle in this book has been:

✅ Taught in marriage intensives to couples on the brink of divorce
✅ Applied in personal coaching with clients desperate for breakthrough
✅ Proven in Dr. Smalley's own journey from control to freedom
✅ Grounded in Scripture and psychological research
✅ Refined through 30 years of counseling thousands of people

The result? Transformed relationships. Restored peace. Genuine freedom.

Real Stories, Real Transformation

"I spent 15 years trying to change my husband. Within 3 months of applying these principles, he was asking ME what I was reading. When I stopped controlling, he finally had space to grow." — Patricia, Age 38

"My adult son was destroying his life with addiction. Letting go felt like giving up on him. But when I stopped rescuing him and started trusting God, my son finally hit bottom and chose recovery. This saved both our lives." — David, Age 58

"I thought letting go meant I didn't care anymore. I was so wrong. I've never loved my wife more deeply than I do now—because it's not conditional on her being perfect." — Tom, Age 44

Here's Everything You Get:

📖 179-Page Comprehensive eBook (Instant PDF Download)

8 complete modules with detailed lessons
Personal stories from Dr. Smalley and real clients
Practical exercises for immediate application
Reflection questions for deeper processing
Scripture foundations throughout

💡 Lifetime Access

Download once, reference forever
Read at your own pace
Return to chapters as needed

🎁 Bonus Materials Included:

The "Hurts & Needs Letter" template
The "Drop It" decision matrix
Quick reference guide to all key principles
Recommended reading list for continued growth

Why This Approach Works When Everything Else Has Failed

Most relationship advice tells you to "communicate better" or "try harder." But you've already tried that. You've probably read books, attended counseling, even prayed for change.

The problem isn't that you need better techniques for changing others.

The problem is that you're trying to be the Holy Spirit in their lives—and you make a terrible Holy Spirit.

This course teaches you a radically different approach:

Stop trying to change them
Start creating safety for them to change themselves
Release outcomes to God
Find your peace regardless of their choices

When you stop demanding change and start creating safety, something miraculous happens: people often become more willing to grow, not less.

Name Your Price (Minimum $5)

Here's something different: You decide what this transformation is worth to you.

We believe this content could save your marriage, restore your relationship with your adult children, bring peace to your family, and free you from years of exhausting control patterns.

The minimum investment is just $5—less than a coffee date, but potentially worth thousands in counseling fees, saved relationships, and restored peace.

But if this course helps you:

Stop a divorce
Restore a relationship with your kids
Finally get free from codependency
Sleep peacefully for the first time in years
Experience joy in your marriage again

Then it's worth far more than $5.

That's why we're letting you name your price. Pay what feels right to you. Pay what you can afford. Pay what you believe this transformation is worth.

Your investment options:

💚 $5 - Minimum (Get Started Price)
💙 $15 - Supporter (Coffee Date Investment)
💜 $25 - Believer (Counseling Session Savings)
❤️ $50+ - Champion (Pay It Forward for Others)

Choose any amount. No judgment. No upsells. Just instant access to transformation.

Who This eBook Is For:

✔️ Married couples where one or both partners are trying to change the other
✔️ Parents exhausted from managing adult children's problems
✔️ Adult children trying to set boundaries with controlling parents
✔️ Anyone who feels responsible for everyone else's emotions
✔️ People-pleasers who don't know how to say no without guilt
✔️ Controllers ready to admit they have a problem
✔️ Codependents desperate for freedom
✔️ Christians wanting to apply biblical principles practically
✔️ Anyone carrying burdens they were never meant to carry

Who This Is NOT For:

❌ People looking for manipulation tactics to control others better
❌ Those wanting permission to be selfish or uncaring
❌ Anyone seeking excuses to abandon responsibilities
❌ People in active abuse situations (you need immediate professional help)
❌ Those unwilling to look at their own patterns and contributions

This is about genuine transformation, not surface-level tricks.

Your Two Choices

Choice 1: Keep doing what you're doing.

Keep trying to change people who won't change. Keep carrying burdens that aren't yours. Keep exhausting yourself with control that doesn't work. Keep damaging relationships with your attempts to fix everyone.

Where will you be in 6 months? A year? Five years?

Choice 2: Try something radically different.

Invest less than a therapy session. Download this course. Apply the principles. Watch what happens when you stop controlling and start loving freely.

The worst case? You're out $5-50 and you gained some insights.

The best case? Your entire relational world transforms.

Frequently Asked Questions

Q: Is this just for marriages? A: No! While many principles apply to marriage, this course covers all relationships—parents, adult children, siblings, friends, coworkers, extended family.

Q: I'm not religious. Will this work for me? A: The principles are grounded in both psychological research and Scripture. Even if you're not a believer, the practical strategies work. That said, the spiritual foundation makes the transformation deeper and more lasting.

Q: What if my spouse won't read it? A: Perfect! This course teaches you to transform YOUR relationships regardless of whether others cooperate. When you change, your relationships change—even if the other person never reads a word.

Q: How long does it take to see results? A: Some people experience breakthrough in days. Most see significant change within 3-6 months of consistent application. Lasting transformation typically takes 6-18 months.

Q: Is this the same content as your VIP membership? A: This is one complete course. Our VIP membership includes this PLUS ongoing coaching, community support, monthly live calls, and additional courses. Think of this eBook as the foundation—VIP is the ongoing support system.

Q: What if I need more help than a book can provide? A: We offer marriage intensives, personal coaching, and VIP membership for those needing additional support. This eBook is often the perfect starting point to see if our approach resonates with you.

Q: Can I share this with my spouse/friend/family? A: This is for your personal use. However, if someone in your life would benefit, we encourage you to gift them their own copy (at whatever price point feels right).

Here's What Happens Next:

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30-Day Peace of Mind Promise

If you apply these principles for 30 days and don't experience ANY positive shift in your relationships or your own peace level, simply email us at [email protected].

We'll refund every penny—no questions asked, no hoops to jump through.

You literally have nothing to lose except the exhausting burden of trying to control everyone.

The Truth About Control

Here's what 30 years of counseling has taught me:

The more you try to control people, the less influence you actually have.

The moment you release control and start loving freely, you become irresistible.

This isn't manipulation. It's the Jesus model. It's how God loves us—completely, freely, without demanding we be perfect before He engages with us.

When you love like that, transformation happens. Not always in them. Not always on your timeline. But always in you.

And sometimes—often—when you change, everything around you changes too.

Don't Wait Until It's Too Late

Every day you spend trying to control others is:

Another day of exhaustion and frustration
Another day of damaged relationships
Another day of resentment building
Another day further from the peace you desperately need

Or you could start today.

For less than a meal out, you could discover principles that transform everything.

Your relationships are waiting for you to let go.

Your peace is waiting for you to release control.

Your transformation starts with a decision.

Make it now.

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P.S. — The Cost of Waiting

Think about what staying stuck is costing you:

Stress-related health issues from constant anxiety
Marital damage from years of control patterns
Damaged relationships with adult children
Lost sleep from ruminating on what others should do
The emotional exhaustion of being everyone's savior

How much would you pay to eliminate all of that?

For the price of a pizza (or less), you could start that journey today.

The question isn't whether you can afford this course.

The question is whether you can afford to keep living the way you're living.

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"If you can't be satisfied where you are, you'll never be satisfied." — Dr. Michael Smalley

Transform your relationships. Find your peace. Discover freedom.

It starts with letting go in love.