One Assessment
to the Marriage

You Really Want

(Starting Now)

Let Me Be Your Guide

Streamline the process of getting to the core of your relationship struggles with The Gottman Relationship Checkup online assessment and four-hour private coaching followup. Get personalized, insightful feedback, plus specific recommendations for an action plan based on your assessment results.


Are you struggling
in your relationship with: 

  • Difficulty communicating and asserting your needs?
  • Lack of intimacy and feeling disconnected from your partner?
  • Feeling stuck because you and your partner are having the same fights over and over again?
  • Feeling easily triggered by your partner because resentment has built up?

Quality Results

The assessment is 480 questions about friendship, intimacy, emotions, conflict, values, and trust, as well as parenting, housework, finances, individual areas of concern, and more. Based on over 40 years of working with couples by Dr. John Gottman (the leading marriage researcher in the world)!

Private Consultation

If you wonder what's fueling the hurt and conflict in your relationship, one-on-one private coaching is your answer. Personalized, insightful feedback, and a specific action plan will give you the insight and tools to overcome any obstacle.  For over 25 years, I've helped couples just like you turn their relationship around!

Proven Approach

Research is clear, virtual relationship coaching works! The reason your relationship continues to struggle is not who you are married to but a lack of understanding about WHY you struggle.

What Alumni Couples Think

Don & Jamie

"Dr. Smalley was insightful, engaging and very down to earth about our situation. He easily looked at where we are, gave an analysis of it, and followed up with positive conflict management tools for us specifically. Couldn’t ask for a better experience. Extremely satisfied and hopeful moving forward."

Who Is Private Coaching For?

"Private coaching? Who... me? I'm okay!"


Read through these next questions, see if private coaching is a good fit for you. Have there been times in your relationship that seem to be a pattern, such as unresolved conflict, feeling discouraged, or troubled when moving through challenges?

Have you made promises to yourself like, "I will never...", or, "My relationship will never improve..." Maybe you experience wanting to shut down, push people away, or keep trying to change someone else by teaching, preaching, and impressing on your partner what he/she needs to change to make your relationship better?

It is urgent, though, you sign up today and experience the insight, freedom, and healing from taking The Gottman Relationship Checkup and private 4-hour coaching intensive.

You Can Do It!

There's no better time than the present to begin the process overcoming seemingly impossible hurt and disconnection in your relationship.


Key Benefits


You are not alone! Everyone has seasons of struggle, but there's great news! It will get better and you can turn things around if you learn why your relationship got in trouble in the first place. Discover the practical skills and get your own personal action plan to overcome anything standing in your way of a great relationship!

Your benefits include:

  • 480 question online assessment
  • Detailed analysis of your relationship based on 40 years of research
  • 4-hour followup private coaching
  • Custom action plan based on assessment and coaching
  • Practical, powerful downloadable couples exercises to implement your action plan
  • Schedule the 4-hour followup at your convenience through my online booking app


There is Hope

Schedule your Gottman Relationship Checkup online assessment and 3-hour private coaching followup today




  • Gottman assessment
  • 4-hour private coaching session
  • Detailed action plan based on your assessment results
  • Downloadable couples exercises helping you implement your action plan




  • Gottman assessment
  • 4-hour private coaching session
  • Detailed action plan based on your assessment results
  • Downloadable couples exercises helping you implement your action plan